I can see this dispute from both sides. It was only until recently I was terribly afraid of bees, well, anything that buzzed. I had no understanding of them other than they died when they stung and wasps didn't. If I would have had my children in the garden stuck in a wendy house and there were lots of bees in the air between us ( and I imagine the children wouldn't have been happy at this either ) then I can totally understand how distressing for parents and children that situation could be. I would have been very upset at this, in my own garden. Although probably wouldn't have reacted with such venom.
On the other hand, I really wish my bees were closer so I could watch them inning and outing. My garden would be the ideal place ( for me lol ) but on this occasion, and after reading the details given, I would have to say I agree that they would have to be moved ( the bees that is ) Every child should be able to play freely in their own garden without fear, whether that fear is justified or not, it is still fear and affecting this family. My children were recently afraid to play out, not because of bees, because of the drug dealer and his scum next door, so I know how upsetting it is when your children are not able to enjoy the fresh air on a sunny day. I disagree with the way the neighours are going about it, but they do have a point.
Hopefully your bees will be happy in their new environment, sounds like bee utopia
I hope your grandad isn't too upset about the whole thing too. A man of his age ought to be able to live without this type of aggro. Ryan, I think you have made the right decision. Any more hostility will just affect your grandfather, and he is the one who has to live there after all. I can understand you would like to give them a peice of your mind, but put yourself in their shoes, lack of understanding a swarm, it would have been terrifying if you didn't know what was happening, and there is always the risk it could happen again, even the best beekeeper will make a mistake at some point, and bees can change their temperamnet for a range of reasons. Better to give your grandfather peice of mind, and explain to the family next door that you were sorry they were distressed by this, explain why it happened, explain you are moving them, but in the meantime, if they would like to come and have a look they would be welcome. You never know.....I became hooked as soon as I saw my first hive and they may just come around. If not, it's off to bee paradise.
Kaz