I found the reasoning in the link from the original post a little concerning
http://www.vegetus.org/honey/honey.htm
It admitted to being biased ( which is something I supose) but I was a bit surprised to discover that I overuse smoke and treat my bees badly and am amazed that I should have realised by identifying the type of hive I use.
Itwould probably be good for the environment andfor me if I ate less meat but I do think I am doing my bit; I am keeping bees largely for recreation and because I consider it the right thing to do. Thankfully I am not doing it for honey (I haven't got much in what was my second year).
I also think that we are where we are with varroa etc and that with hindsight we may not have imported in the way we did (do?). In most parts of the world, where we are now needs us beekeepers if honey bees are going to be around. I wonder if she really would prefer the alternative to us.