ultreen1
House Bee
- Joined
- Apr 17, 2012
- Messages
- 290
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- Location
- Pontnewynydd
- Hive Type
- National
- Number of Hives
- 8
Maybe I just "didn't think"
Whoa! Struck a chord, I think.
And well done for that, long overdue.
Personally, I do like the "Stop and think" responses such as RAB posts.
I like that challenge.
We covered that at Primary School and learned it very well, so it's condescending at the least unless said in a conversational aspect (I'll explain if necessary but a la PH should suffice).
Someone asks a question, surely we don't tell them to think, we tell them our answer, give them the advice, refer them to information. In their mind should be the thought "Ah, I see ...." IMHO of course.
But, when some condescending little tick rebukes someone with taunts, sarcasm or name calling; it does make you think what they may have done to their children while they were unable to bite back.
As long as it doesn't make the recipient feel diminished.
So, let's have the id*ot questions.
Don't diminish yourself or make others think they are asking fool questions by saying such a thing!
Dusty.
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