I think there are a few fundamental problems regarding varroa resistant bees.
Firstly, if bees invest more effort in the resistant behaviors, that that is effort treated bees could use making honey. One of the behaviors is apparently pulling out infected larvae. And apparently the foundress can still go on to infect another cell. So even if you have resistant bees, then treating could potentially still give you an increase in yield.
Secondly, the varroa can adapt too. If we all had the same veroha resistant bees and the varroa adapted to counter the hygienic behavior, then all the efforts could be for nothing. Having a greater diversity of bee stock would help counter varroa adaptions.
There is one aspect of treatment that is rally discussed. And that is when organisms adapt to resist a toxin, the adaption is usually detrimental to the organism. So if you take pyrethroids for example. To my understanding resistance is not uncommon now in UK populations. However this resistance is likely to have come at some cost to the veroha, possibly handy-capping them a little bit.
This is an analogy I heard that explains this effect. Imagine a WW1 solder fighting in a battle. But then gas is used, so now he must ware a mask. Then a new gas is used so he must cover all his skin with a suit. Each time he counters the gas he becomes less effective.
So the dirty-treaters out there (myself included) might actually be helping everyone.
However I think the biggest argument to stop treating, and I have never heard this mentioned. Is the fact that parsaties and hosts will usually find a balance. Like with viruses the parasites will evolve to be less destructive to their hosts. So we might not have to bother with resistant bees, just wait for the varroa to become less destructive.
So my ultimate plan looks like this. Breed varroa resistant bees, and store them in a lab. All stop treating until the balance is found. Then resume treatment and hammer them with everything we have got. Once they are multiply resistant, then we pull the bees out the Lab to face vastly weekended Verona.
I assume every one agrees - so we all start tomorrow.... right?