Queen B
New Bee
I think you got it in one QB.
I try to be gentle and move deliberately and I even go as far as apologising to them if I think I may have not been quite as gentle as I want to be. Mind you I talk to them all the time I'm near them anyway whether I'm going to do anything or not, and so far it seems to be working. (OK please don't laugh too much at that idea).
Oh, goody! Another nutty beekeeper like me! I talk to my lot all the time, too - even when they're out and about on the flowers. Once had to explain to a passer-by why I was talking to a roadside shrub. (I wasn't - I was talking to the bee on the flower ...)! If they're building 'textbook' comb and the brood frames are perfect, I tell them how pleased I am with them!