I can usually find what I'm looking for by using the search button, but would also agree that I have to think twice before posting in case whatever question I have opens up another contentious thread.
I totally agree that different opinions are valid, my mentor and other well respected members of our local BKA all have differing opinions. As a very newbie I consider it my responsibility to read as much as possible and try to learn as much as I can. Hopefully then, any decisions I make will be informed ones, rather than just doing what someone else tells me, or guessing.
I have seen too many threads which result in people metaphorically rolling their eyes at newbies. Yes, some of the questions might be silly, people could find the answers themselves, but the fact they they have sought out a dedicated forum to ask questions shows good intent; surely they should be met with patience and encouragement?
The questions asked here are generally useful ones. Try looking at some of the things that people ask on newbie Facebook groups; they are actually quite worrying in some cases!!
And yes, Webby, one member who seems hell bent on causing argument just for the sake of it.