Well I decided to give up beekeeping this weekend. I was mainly doing it to help out the other half, but apparently all I was doing was confusing things, contradicting and getting in the way. I was offered a hive, but it seems daft having 2 people managing different hives in one garden! Given it was her hobby to start with, I'm bowing out.
So any posts from this account now will be from her!
Thanks for the help and support you've given me, and hopefully you'll be able to provide the same to my other half!