Let’s get a couple, or so, things straightened out.
Oxalic is not caustic - it is acidic. There is plenty of calcium to precipitate it in body fluids. Breathing the stuff will precipitate insoluble trash in your lungs. On top of that it is a strong acid and, as such, will cause burning damage to the lung airways. That is the prime reason for not breathing the stuff in.
Ethylene glycol is a completely different compound. Yes, it is extremely poisonous but not all poisons act in the same way - think here, perhaps, of carbon monoxide poisoning?
Same with eyes - would you put acid in your eyes? It will dissolve and can cause severe burns if in high concentration.
Only dummies ignore the risks as scaremongering. I’m was a chemist originally - analysing all sorts of things - and have used a very wide range of chemicals. All were treated with the care they deserved,
I’ve pumped whole carboys of concentratedc nitric snd hydrochloric acidb by us e of a hand-held electric barrel pump. Not something you do from below the intended receiving vessel! A mixture of those two acids is Aqua Regia and will dissolve gold and other precios metals.
Guidance is provided for everyone to avoid the effects of poisons and other potentially obnoxios chemicals. Follow that guidance implicitly, unless you actually know better - and there are not too many chemists on this forum.
As an edit, I don’t suppose that many on the forum know actually know what a strong acid actually means.