Thanks all, mite count completed and found to be about 5 per day - but I had trouble with the vaselvine /meths bit.
Before I started this I had the tray in for a week or so, just because I thought it should be in. I took it out and there was a puddle of water on it, but not so bad - then added the debris to meths and saw a few mites (4,) floating. For the actual control count I coated the tray with vaseline, as advised by FERA, and after 5 days it was covered in water, at least half a cup.I added some of the water, the tray scrapings and 5 dead bees ( worried avout these too....), to meths and it all stuck together in a lump. NO mites floated. I went through the debris, soaking up the meths on paper and spreading the debris out to count the mites. My final count, with a low to medium level of confidence is 35, max, allowing for losing some mites as a lot of the water ran off the tray when I moved it....... Reluctant to try this again as I did not like the water and am keeping the tray out. Much conflicting advice but on the whole, after consulting with the previous owner of this hive, ( who uses wooden floors and normally keeps the tray in), we decided that:
A) the water problem might be due to use of a metal tray causing condensation - the nights have been very cold. Common sense says the bees will not like living over a puddle of dirty water, so leave tray out and monitor.
B) The mite levels are probably fine, 35 sounds like an over estimate, he did a spring Oxalic acid treatment.
C) About the dead bees - no idea if this is normal?
We have in the meantime re-homed 3 more colonies from the same beekeeper, nothin like jumping in the deep end is there?