I admire the fact that you have tried to put a lot of work in, but perhaps it would be best to consider an analogy in order to understand the reactions you have received.
Forget bees for a second and lets say you wanted to become a sheep farmer. Now lets imagine you found a forum where local farmers (I don't know where you are based, but let's say Yorkshire) exchanged ideas. Some of them have hundreds of sheep and have been farming them for decades in local conditions. And on that forum you said this:
"Hello. I am in my first year of farming here in Yorkshire. I have bought 2 sheep and have a small paddock. Having done a lot of research online, and having watched their YouTube videos, I have decided to use the sheep feeding method recommended by Billy McHillbilly of Kentucky, USA, and the breeding method recommended by Charlie McIcicle of deepest Newfoundland. I shall be using equipment designed by a breeder in Georgia, USA. Would anyone like to be my mentor?"
In all honesty, if you were one of those local farmers, would you leap at the chance? Or might your back be put up just a little bit?