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Back again, the shares forum isnt having a good day......... the pattern is similar, markets down and aggro or weather / honey/ bees down and aggro.
The problem with the written word is it is poor by itself in communicating.
As a percentage the 3 key elements of communication are
The words (conscious element) 7%
The tonality (unconscious element) 38%
The body language (unconscious element) 55%.
You can see that taking away the bottom 2 that the words of communication mean little without the other 2. We therefore pick up more on the tonality of the words (written) and our perception of that can be greatly skewed.
We dont see any of the body language so half the intended message is lost before we start.
Think about it, how many of us have said or written something that we would not dream of saying to someones face. A unknown faceless person on the phone or opening your stern letter who gets both barrels whilst you are sat in your dressing gown stroking the cat and bouncing your grandchild on your knee.
Enough I hear you say, what is all this management consultant speak mumbo jumbo, but hey add it to this
E x R = O
E is for event, R is your reaction to the event and O is the outcome.
So something happens (E) you react (R) and you get an outcome (O)
How many times is it not the outcome you wanted.
Here's the trick....... after an E, take a few seconds to evaluate what has happened and consider what outcome you would like. Now tailor your reaction to help achieve that outcome.
Easy said when all you want to do is chin the git (and sometimes you just have too) but use the now created gap between the E and R and maybe you wouldnt jump so quick and end up hurting your hive tool hand.
Anyway, apply it next time you look in a hive and see something an (E) and use the gap to think about what you want to achieve before you react and you will find that your reaction after a bit of thought will be a better one. A few extra moments wont hurt unless they are really mad !
Boring blurb over, the sun is out and I have a couple of unites to uncombine and tidy the spare boxes away.
Pete D
The problem with the written word is it is poor by itself in communicating.
As a percentage the 3 key elements of communication are
The words (conscious element) 7%
The tonality (unconscious element) 38%
The body language (unconscious element) 55%.
You can see that taking away the bottom 2 that the words of communication mean little without the other 2. We therefore pick up more on the tonality of the words (written) and our perception of that can be greatly skewed.
We dont see any of the body language so half the intended message is lost before we start.
Think about it, how many of us have said or written something that we would not dream of saying to someones face. A unknown faceless person on the phone or opening your stern letter who gets both barrels whilst you are sat in your dressing gown stroking the cat and bouncing your grandchild on your knee.
Enough I hear you say, what is all this management consultant speak mumbo jumbo, but hey add it to this
E x R = O
E is for event, R is your reaction to the event and O is the outcome.
So something happens (E) you react (R) and you get an outcome (O)
How many times is it not the outcome you wanted.
Here's the trick....... after an E, take a few seconds to evaluate what has happened and consider what outcome you would like. Now tailor your reaction to help achieve that outcome.
Easy said when all you want to do is chin the git (and sometimes you just have too) but use the now created gap between the E and R and maybe you wouldnt jump so quick and end up hurting your hive tool hand.
Anyway, apply it next time you look in a hive and see something an (E) and use the gap to think about what you want to achieve before you react and you will find that your reaction after a bit of thought will be a better one. A few extra moments wont hurt unless they are really mad !
Boring blurb over, the sun is out and I have a couple of unites to uncombine and tidy the spare boxes away.
Pete D